Tom and Vicki offer opportunities for learning, self-improvement and marriage building through day events, programs, workshops and confidential couple to couple or one-on-one’s for engaged and married couples.

A Day with the Dau’s

Spend a day in a casual atmosphere balancing work, play, serious, and humorous topics with a couple who has lived it. Your day begins at 8:30am, spending 8 hours that can make the rest of your days together the best they have ever been.

A Day with The Dau’s for Engaged Couples-
Perfect for couples who understand the wedding is but a day while the marriage lasts a lifetime, and want to equip themselves with tools and practical advice from a happily married couple (most of the time) since 1987.

A Day with The Dau’s for Married Couples-
Designed for “newly” married couples to get tips, insights and tools to keep that spark alive.

A Day with The Dau’s for Couples dealing with trauma of past sexual abuse- (Private, One-on-One Exclusive Event with Tom and Vicki)
When the unspeakable has happened to your wife in her past, but you still seem to be paying the price and dealing with the scars everyday of your marriage.
For husbands:  Learn how to understand what is going on with her and how to help.
For wives: Learn how to continue healing and how you can help your husband help you so you can leave behind the pain, suffering and triggers and your union can be strong and healthy.  During some sessions, husband and wife may separate for discussion and activities.

Interactive half-day Workshops

Discover the “Original” Medicine Cabinet
See and sample first hand the side-effect-free, simple, effective elements to tackle the everyday ailments you encounter from a family of nine that has been antibiotic free since 1987.  Also learn about the common misconceptions most families have and mistakes made regarding colds, fever and ear infections.

Get out of your murky river
9 steps to identifying and being released from toxic situations, environments, beliefs or behaviors.  Journey with others in solidarity and support as you become the main character in your own version of the parable of empowerment, freedom and truth called “Out of the River.”

Dating Program

Time for Just the Two of You-
Step by Step, 4 month Dating Program for strengthening marriages  Receive regular emails with topics to answer and discuss together when you go on your date.  Based on The Marriage Alphabet by Tom and Vicki Dau

Couple-to-Couple or One-on-One Sessions

Tom  and Vicki are available individually or together as a couple, to meet confidentially with men, women or couples.

They provide a great example of life experience coupled with magnificent resources to help other husbands and wives committed to improving their marriage, and are especially passionate about working with couples weathering the effects of past sexual abuse and the extra challenges that trauma brings to the union.

Their unique perspective, practical and formal education, and unwavering support is available to equip you to improve your circumstances and ultimately your happiness individually and as a couple, ideally connecting you with God’s plan of sheer goodness!